Archive for October, 2010

Where to Find Local Swingers?

Tuesday, October 26th, 2010

Where to find local swingers?

It can be difficult and sometimes awkward to find local swingers in your area. You will find that this is especially true whenever you are new to the swinger’s scene and are looking to find the right group of people to have some fun with. Make sure that you are aware of the safe and best ways to find local swingers in your area.

Internet

If you go online you will be able to find a lot of different swingers in your area. Go to sites that specialise in local swingers, for example if you are based in Sheffield then find a site that has a large population of Sheffield Swingers. Go into the chat rooms or look on the message forums to get general information about the swingers that you are talking to. This is a place where they can all get together and arrange meetings. You will find that this is something that can be dangerous. Whenever you are meeting with other people online make sure that you are cautious and that you do not give away too much personal information.

Clubs

If you are interested in going out and meeting other swingers in your area then the best way to do this is to go to a swingers club. There are more than likely swingers clubs closer to the bigger cities in your area. Go online to search for the nearby swinger’s clubs to get a good idea of what your options are. Usually, if you can find one swinger you will be able to get in touch with a lot more of them. Swingers typically will stick together and hang around each other.

Wife Swapping – What Is It?

Thursday, October 7th, 2010

Wife swapping is another form of swinging. In this scenario, couples get together and the wives go off with other men, allowing the husbands to have sex with the other wives. For men it can be exciting to think about their wives with other guys, and for women the excitement can come from being admired by other men. There are many reasons people choose to try this, and there are a few ways you can experiment with this.

Close Friends

If you have other couples that are close friends, you may be surprised to find out they may have thought about this. You can invite them over for a dinner and game night, and play a silly game like truth or dare. See how far you can push the envelope without making anyone uncomfortable. If things go well, you can try to swap with just 1 couple and see how it goes.

Swingers Parties

Another good place to try the wife swapping is at a swingers party. Since swingers are in to sex with other people, finding another couple, or a few couples, at these parties can ensure you find safe and open partners to try this with.

Jealousy

Jealousy can rear its head during these situations. If the thought of your wife being with another man turns you on, but also makes you angry, it’s best to leave this in fantasy land. The same needs to be applied from the woman’s perspective. It’s better to not toy around with a healthy relationship if you think it will damage it.